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Your Wedding Vows

For some couples standing up in front of family and friends is a bit overwhelming. The thing to remember is – you’re amongst family and friends to celebrate your love and commitment to one another – nothing else matters.

When you choose me as your Lucky in Love Marriage Celebrant I’ll provide you with a treasure trove of creative ideas to help create the ceremony perfect for you. This includes words you can use for your vows.

The other option my couples like is to write their own vows. Remember you’re exchanging vows as pledges of your love and your commitment. When you’re crafting your own vows they should be personal to you so can be a few words or a few paragraphs (in some cases a few A4 pages!) and written from the heart – and in your own personal style – whether that includes in jokes, sentimental tearjerkers or solemn oaths – whatever works for you, we work it in!

So don’t stress, find a quiet place, relax and have fun choosing what’s right for you! xx

And hopefully you don’t waffle your words like this couple!! ; ) But if you do it doesn’t matter – it will just create another unforgettable memorable moment!!!

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Strange Wedding Traditions

The one thing every human society has in common is marriage. However some societies have gross, confusing, terrifying, or any mixture of the three wedding traditions. Have a read of these strange wedding traditions…

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For tribes of the Tidong community in Northern Borneo newly married couples are required to be confined to their house while not emptying their bowels or urinating for three days and nights. Bonding time?

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Your Wedding ♥ from Your Dog’s Perspective

How cool is this??!!!

US photographer Mia Miller shot this Indiana wedding (my hometown) – and she came up with this unique way to capture angles you would not normally see at a wedding! All thanks to the bride and groom’s dog Pi! See Pi as she slinks her way through the celebration, capturing these behind the scenes shots.

Make or Break Wedding Details

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The Music. Whether it’s a live band or a DJ, couples want their guests out on that dancefloor having the time of their lives. A great band leader or DJ knows how to keep guests entertained without being annoying, as well as when is the right time to play the right music (like not playing a JLo dance hit during dinner). Ask family and friends for recommendations, and try to see your contenders in action before booking. If you’re DIYing with an iPod make sure you have a back up device and a charger on hand just in case. Check you have the right speaker set up and a mic for the ceremony and reception venues.

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Alternatives to a Ring Exchange

One of my lovely couples wanted to know about alternatives to the Ring Exchange which usually follows your vows and symbolises your eternal commitment to one another.

However, your wedding ceremony should be exactly as you want it to be – it’s your day and it’s all about YOU!!!!

So, if one of you or both of you can’t wear rings for work or don’t want to exchange rings because you’re just not jewellery wearers or for any other reason here are a few alternative ideas…

Unity Ceremony

Handfasting

Ring Finger Tattoes

Message in a Bottle

Handwritten Vow Exchange

Exchange artwork

Tree Planting

Wine Lock Box

Exchange Lei’s

‘Blessing’ of the Hands

… or you could just simply exchange your vows then be pronounced Husband and Wife.

Check out Off Beat Bride for more very cool ideas!

 

Hawaii Surprise Dream Wedding!

Hawaii – another incredible location for a marriage proposal – and your SURPRISE wedding day!!!

This was a marketing ploy – but who cares – it is just so awesome that these two gay US military veterans had someone give ‘something back’ to them after serving their country and get to promote the LGBT community PLUS experienced the wedding of their dreams!! All on Hawaii Tourism!!!

Read the full story here (have your tissues ready).

 

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Romantic Proposal Locations ♥ Santa Catalina Island

My lovely friend told me I had to blog about this incredibly romantic spot off the coast of California, a ferry ride away from Hollywood. The island is famous for beautiful beaches, underwater beauty, wildlife and nature reserves.

Catalina is known as the ‘Island of Romance’ and old school crooners like Tony Martin immortalised it in a song. There’s even a place called ‘Lover’s Cove’! Adding to it’s dreamy quality it was a 1930’s Hollywood heydey glamour getaway for actors like Clark Gable. Marilyn Monroe once lived on Catalina as well.

Last month, my friend was on holiday with her boyfriend who planned the perfect proposal… after taking a tour of Catalina Island, he found a picturesque spot to watch the sunset and waited until the other tourists had left them on their own… then got down on bended knee!

How romantic!!!

Thanks Teresa and Mark for sharing this with everyone!! xx

Why is a Marriage Certificate important?

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The Registrar-General; Births, Deaths, Marriages, Citizenship, Authentications and Translations recently published a reminder about the importance of your marriage documents and how a Marriage Certificate can now be ordered easily by the Bride and Groom.

 

There are 4 documents/pieces of paper which act as your Marriage Documents:

1. Marriage License

You can apply for this no more than 3 months before your wedding date. Download the application form from www.dia.govt.nz Search keywords: How to Get a Marriage License. Complete the details, follow the instructions and hand deliver it to your nearest Registrars office at the Department of Internal Affairs (NZDIA) where at least one of you will need to sign the document in front of the officer and pay the fee.
You will then go in to collect the Marriage License along with two copies of the Copy of Particulars of Marriage. Your Celebrant will take possession of all three documents at rehearsal or on your wedding day.

 

2 & 3. Copy of Particulars of Marriage (2 copies)

When you’ve applied for your Marriage License the Registrars office will let you know when to collect the Marriage License and two copies of Copy of Particulars of Marriage.
You will give your Celebrant all three documents – on your wedding day both copies of Copy of Particulars of Marriage will be presented on your register signing table just off centre from the altar (or wherever you want!). On your wedding day the Bride and the Groom will sign both copies, along with their two witnesses and Celebrant.
At the end of the ceremony your Celebrant will present you with one copy which acts as your legal document.
Your Celebrant will post the other copy off immediately to the NZDIA to officially register your marriage.

 

4. Marriage Certificate

On the Bride and Grooms copy of Copy of Particulars of Marriage document there is a form you can complete on the back to apply for a Marriage Certificate. You can post, phone or email to request a copy then pay your fee and it will be posted to you.
The benefits of a Marriage Certificate are:
A Marriage Certificate confirms that the marriage has been officially registered.
If needed for any legal reason, the certificate is prima facie evidence of the truth of the information it contains.
Some organisations may require a Marriage Certificate as evidence to enrol with the organisation, or update name details, if the assumed surname from marriage is different from the birth surname. Some of these places are tertiary institutions, banks, Immigration New Zealand and the New Zealand Transport Authority.
In the event that one or both partners file for divorce, a marriage certificate may be needed with the application.
A Marriage Certificate may be used as proof of marriage to show overseas organisations. This can be for purposes such as visas, passports and residency.

I have always advised my Brides and Grooms that in New Zealand the “Copy of Particulars of Marriage” form which is signed at their ceremony will act as evidence of their marriage. So, when Brides who take on their Grooms surnames (or vice versa) wish to update documents they can show the ‘Copy of Particulars of Marriage” form to do this, or when they are handling any legal transactions this can be used. However, some countries and some organisations may not accept this as proof of marriage.

Therefore It’s a good idea for couples to order a marriage certificate which costs around $25. Plus you’ll have two marriage documents on hand.

Beautiful Bridesmaids

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I just love this look – old world glam mixed with enchanted fairy… they look like mischevious pixies who are having the best day ever!!!

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